March is Disability Awareness Month, and although the month is almost over, around here we believe it’s never too late for some quality resources and education. Our collection has many voices from disabled members of the GLBT community that reveal lives affected by intolerance, legal disputes, lack of inclusivity, questions of identity, isolation, and misconception. A common theme is the collision of queer theory and disability studies, resulting in the emergence of the queer disabled culture. Many also describe both alienation and acceptance within the queer community.
Based on first-hand accounts, these stories take a close look at questions of identity, relationships, sex, love, parenting and abuse and demolishes the taboo around disability and sex. It shows both the barriers to disabled people’s sexual rights and sexual expression, and also the ways in which these obstacles are being challenged.
Reverberates with the sound of “cripgay” voices rising to be heard above the din of indifference and bias, oppression and ignorance. This collection of first-person narratives of gay men with mobility and neuromuscular disorders, spinal cord injury, deafness, blindness, and AIDS, fight isolation from society — and each other — to establish a public identity and a common culture.
A collection of research, first-hand accounts, poetry, theory, and journalistic essays that address and outline the special needs o sexual minorities when dealing with eating disorders and appearance obsession. Disability is addressed in several sections of this book, including misconception, discrimination and bias, partner perceptions, and gender identity.
Describes the founding,a chievements, and history of a unique group providing support for GLBT peple with developmental disabilities or mental retardation. Group founder John D. Allen describes the Rainbow Support Group’s beginnings in 1998 and the ways in which it has been shattering the myths and stereotypes surrounding people with mental retardation ever since.
In 1983, Sharon Kowalski was seriously injured when her car was struck by a drunk driver, leaving her unable to move or communicate in traditional ways. Karen, her lover of four years, was by Sharon’s side constantly, helping her in the arduous fight to regain basic life-skills. In 1985, the court awarded Sharon’s father sole guardianship, and within 24 hours, he denied Karen visitation rights. In this book, Karen shares her struggle to fight for her and her partner’s rights and her transition from being a closeted lesbian to a feminist activist.
Writer, activist and artist Connie Panzarino was born in 1947 with the rare disease Spinal Muscular Atrophy Type III, formerly called Amytonia Congenita. Throughout a childhood filled with both pain and joy, she strove to define herself: “I knew I was different. Now I had a name for the difference, like being Italian or Jewish. I was an Amytonia. I didn’t understand if that meant that I would never walk, or if all it meant was lack of muscle tone. I didn’t know that most children with this disease die before they’re five years old.” In this deeply moving and eloquent memoir, Connie Panzarino describes her decades of struggle and triumph, her relationships with family members and long-time lover Ron Kovic, her eventual turn to lesbianism, and her years of pioneering work in the disability rights movement.
In these volumes, deaf GLBT people tell their stories of discovering their sexual identities, overcoming barriers to communication, and reveal insight into deaf gay and lesbian culture.
In this poetic, introspective memoir, Kenny Fries illustrates his intersecting identities as gay, Jewish, and disabled. While learning about the history of his body through medical records and his physical scars, Fries discovers just how deeply the memories and psychic scars run. As he reflects on his relationships with his family, his compassionate doctor, the brother who resented his disability, and the men who taught him to love, he confronts the challenges of his life. Body, Remember is a story about connection, a redemptive and passionate testimony to one man’s search for the sources of identity and difference.
In 1959, the year Terry Galloway turned nine, the voices of everyone she loved began to disappear. No one yet knew that an experimental antibiotic given to her mother had wreaked havoc on her fetal nervous system, eventually causing her to go deaf. As a self-proclaimed “child freak,” she acted out her fury with her boxy hearing aids and Coke-bottle glasses by faking her own drowning at a camp for crippled children. Ever since that first real-life performance, Galloway has used theater, whether onstage or off, to defy and transcend her reality. With disarming candor, she writes about her mental breakdowns, her queer identity, and living in a silent, quirky world populated by unforgettable characters. What could have been a bitter litany of complaint is instead an unexpectedly hilarious and affecting take on life.
Exile and Pride explores the landscape of disability, class, queerness, and child abuse, telling stories which echo with the sounds of an Oregon logging and fishing town and with the lively political debates of crip crusaders and transgender warriors.
We want to hear from you! What are your experiences within the queer disabled community? Have you read any of the above books, or encountered any other helpful resources? Let us know in the comments!